Chinese women are spending thousands on virtual boyfriends: ‘Maybe because real-life marriage is just … dull’

A Chinese man tried paying his wife to stop spending time with her virtual boyfriend.

The man asked his wife to stop using a particular program for a year in exchange for $2,800, and she initially agreed. The woman reportedly transferred the money into her daughter’s savings account until a week later, when she reinstalled the game because a new dating scene for her virtual boyfriend was released.

‘As a married woman, I still feel a bit guilty.’

The story of a woman going by “Minnie” is one of many chronicled in a recent article about Chinese women who are addicted to otomo games, virtual romance games targeted at women.

The most popular, Love and Romance, made $750 million in 2025, according to Pocket Gamer, with Sensor Tower reporting